While some martial art instructors seek out books on war and domination, I turn to cookbooks for inspiration on nurturing people and fostering a sense of community.
Also speaks to the material conditions, you may have in your head what the 'correct' recipe for paella 🥘 is, but saffron is very expensive, and maybe you ran out, but that doesn't mean you can make a tasty meal with what you've got left.
You might want to always throw the 'perfect' hook, but your partner might not allow it. The perfect hook, and the perfect meal, is the best one you can do right now.
Also speaks to the material conditions, you may have in your head what the 'correct' recipe for paella 🥘 is, but saffron is very expensive, and maybe you ran out, but that doesn't mean you can make a tasty meal with what you've got left.
You might want to always throw the 'perfect' hook, but your partner might not allow it. The perfect hook, and the perfect meal, is the best one you can do right now.